Archive for June, 2011

Please Hear What I’m Not Saying

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

Please Hear What I’m Not Saying


Don’t be fooled by me.

Don’t be fooled by the face I wear

For I wear a mask, a thousand masks,

Masks that I’m afraid to take off

And none of them is me.


Pretending is an art that’s second nature with me,

but don’t be fooled,

for God’s sake don’t be fooled.

I give you the impression that I’m secure,

that all is sunny and unruffled with me,

within as well as without,

that confidence is my name and coolness my game,

that the water’s calm and I’m in command

and that I need no one,

but don’t believe me.


My surface may be smooth but

my surface is my mask,

ever-varying and ever-concealing.

Beneath lies no complacence.

Beneath lies confusion, and fear, and aloneness.

But I hide this. I don’t want anybody to know it.

I panic at the thought of my weakness exposed.

That’s why I frantically create a mask to hide behind,

a nonchalant sophisticated facade,

to help me pretend,

to shield me from the glance that knows.


But such a glance is precisely my salvation,

my only hope, and I know it.

That is, if it is followed by acceptance,

If it is followed by love.

It’s the only thing that can liberate me from myself

from my own self-built prison walls

from the barriers that I so painstakingly erect.

It’s the only thing that will assure me

of what I can’t assure myself,

that I’m really worth something.

But I don’t tell you this. I don’t dare to. I’m afraid to.


I’m afraid you’ll think less of me,

that you’ll laugh, and your laugh would kill me.

I’m afraid that deep-down I’m nothing

and that you will see this and reject me.


So I play my game, my desperate, pretending game

With a façade of assurance without

And a trembling child within.

So begins the glittering but empty parade of Masks,

And my life becomes a front.

I tell you everything that’s really nothing,

and nothing of what’s everything,

of what’s crying within me.

So when I’m going through my routine

do not be fooled by what I’m saying.

Please listen carefully and try to hear what I’m not saying,

what I’d like to be able to say,

what for survival I need to say,

but what I can’t say.


I don’t like hiding.

I don’t like playing superficial phony games.

I want to stop playing them.

I want to be genuine and spontaneous and me

but you’ve got to help me.

You’ve got to hold out your hand

even when that’s the last thing I seem to want.

Only you can wipe away from my eyes

the blank stare of the breathing dead.

Only you can call me into aliveness.

Each time you’re kind, and gentle, and encouraging,

each time you try to understand because you really care,

my heart begins to grow wings –

very small wings,

but wings!


With your power to touch me into feeling

you can breathe life into me.

I want you to know that.

I want you to know how important you are to me,

how you can be a creator–an honest-to-God creator –

of the person that is me

if you choose to.

You alone can break down the wall behind which I tremble,

you alone can remove my mask,

you alone can release me from the shadow-world of panic,

from my lonely prison,

if you choose to.

Please choose to.


Do not pass me by.

It will not be easy for you.

A long conviction of worthlessness builds strong walls.

The nearer you approach me

the blinder I may strike back.

It’s irrational, but despite what the books may say about man

often I am irrational.

I fight against the very thing I cry out for.

But I am told that love is stronger than strong walls

and in this lies my hope.

Please try to beat down those walls

with firm hands but with gentle hands

for a child is very sensitive.


Who am I, you may wonder?

I am someone you know very well.

For I am every man you meet

and I am every woman you meet.

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Fantasy Backgrounds

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

These fantasy backgrounds were created in Bryce 7.0. You are free to use them in your renders and tags.


NO LONGER available for download



South Beach Diet

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Daily tip from South Beach Diet:

Mesh Hearts

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Here are some tubes of Mesh Hearts.  Just right-click and download:


Monday, June 13th, 2011

The gears are just turning!  Here are some tubes of gears.  There are more colors than shown in the preview.


Bear Fishing

Saturday, June 11th, 2011

Here is a tube of a bear catching a fish that I made while playing in DS4.  Just right-click on the image and download.


Thursday, June 9th, 2011

These tubes were created in PSP with the lasso tool.


New DAZ tutorials

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

With the new DAZ 4 out, I am updating myDAZ hatchling lessons to match DS4.¬† There will be 2 separate hatchling lessons, one for DS4, and one for the lower versions.¬† If you are interested in learning the BASICS of using DAZ 4¬† (or version 3), you will need to join my forum.¬† Just go to the forum link, read the instructions about becoming a member, make your introduction post, comment/chat with the member, and soon you’ll be able to take the hatchling lessons.

Dragon’s Breath Forums

Also, at the forum, is a set of lessons started for Hexagon.  These are not so structured, as I am not an expert in making models.  But someone asked me how I did it, so there are my tuts.  

The forum also includes PSP hatchling lessons, Poser hatchling lessons, Photoshop hatchling lessons, and Digital Scrapbooking Lessons (using kits).

Model of a Simple Pot

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Here’s a model of a simple pot.¬† It does NOT include the food that’s in the picture.

NO LONGER available for download



Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Here’s some gnomes.¬† This is Hein.